With Your Pheromone Production
Guys often ask me how they can lower their anxiety before talking to women to make things easier with those cheaper pheromones. I always say that you don’t want to lower your level of energy, as this is what creates the spark or sexual tension in the interaction. Instead, you have to learn how to become comfortable with that energy so that you don’t diffuse it in a number of nervous habits and excuses or other sabotaging thought patterns. You have to embrace that energy and learn how to ride the dragon. Human beings are attracted to individuals who can carry large amounts of tension or sexual energy while remaining calm. They want a man who won’t flinch as she unleashes all of her sexual energy, who she can trust to hold the energy for both of them as she lets herself go. If you’re showing that you can’t handle this initial tension then she won’t feel comfortable turning up the heat even further with your pheromone production. Learn more at http://swankyseven.com/?p=129andhttp://mpommett79.hatenablog.com/entry/2015/12/06/211213
As you work on holding rising levels of sexual tension pheromones in your body without becoming anxious, these feelings will naturally be communicated through your body. We’ll be describing how this happens through your touch and your words in the next two chapters. But the most important way your sexual feelings express themselves is through the feelings shared by both people in an interaction — otherwise known as the vibe.The most powerful way your desire is communicated in the moment it arises is through your body. As I mentioned, when someone is feeling something in their body whoeverÃ¢ÂÂs around will feel it as well. As you become comfortable feeling more sexual energy in your body, your eyes and facial expression will reflect that energy, becoming more seductive. At the same time your voice will lower ever so slightly and take on a more seductive tone. Note that if you’re trying to look or sound sexy, your expression will be as awkward as a fake smile. Learn more at http://markalexander.over-blog.com/2015/02/dubious-pheromones-in-colognes.html
The expression has to be the one that naturally arises from the sexual energy of the moment for the strongest pheromones.If you want an excellent example of communicating with a sexual vibe, I recommend watching the television show Californication. The show revolves around the character Hank Moody, played by actor David Duchovny, who sabotages his life through countless sexual trysts. While television shows have to make the dialogue more Ã¢ÂÂpunchyÃ¢ÂÂ for ratings, youÃ¢ÂÂll notice that the main driver behind MoodyÃ¢ÂÂs trysts is the fact that he communicates with everyone in that show, men and women (with the exception of his daughter) with the most overt sexual tone you can imagine. The women heÃ¢ÂÂs interacting with feel this sexual energy and respond with flirtation of their own. At that point all Hank has to do is push things forward with an even more overt sexual vibe and the words and actions I describe in the following chapters on how pheormones work.Other than allowing her to contribute equally to the conversation, this is the area where not rushing to fill in silences is most important. Sexuality can’t exist without silence, and although filling in this silence is one of the most common ways we diffuse the tension, you must avoid this rut if the natural sexual feelings of an interaction are to flourish.